Announcement

Posted: January 12, 2010 in Uncategorized

I almost did it…..

I almost deleted this blog…..

But instead (and since it is none of her business), any posts having to do with my marriage will now be private or password protected.

My hubby’s EX-WIFE…yes, the one who cheated on him and left him, and DIVORCED him more than 20 years ago has found my blog.

She is part of the kicking and screaming baggage that I get to deal with on a daily basis…..and I really don’t feel like giving her the pleasure of knowing the inside scoop of what is going on.

OH YEAH….AND BE SURE TO READ HER RESPONSE IN THE COMMENTS….THIS ONE IS A REAL WINNER.  1986 CALLED AND WANTS THEIR BIG HAIR BACK!  AND SHE HAS NO IDEA HOW OLD I AM…….I LOVE THAT!  THIS WOMAN HAS SERIOUS MENTAL ISSUES…..I MEAN, COME ON….MOVE ON LADY….YOU HAVE HAD HOW MANY HUSBANDS SINCE YOU WERE MARRIED TO DEAN?   OH WAIT….AND YOU ARE SINGLE NOW?  GEE, I WONDER WHY….WITH ALL YOUR “ISSUES” IT IS NO WONDER NO MAN WANTS ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU…..

FACE IT, YOU ARE JEALOUS.  EVEN MANDY SAYS THAT….AND SHE CALLED ME YESTERDAY…TO APOLOGIZE FOR YOUR ACTION!  HOW SAD IS THAT?  IF SHE HAS MENTAL ISSUES, IT IS BECAUSE OF THE DAMAGE THAT YOU DID…YOU KNOW, LIKE TELLING THE GIRLS THAT DEAN WAS DEAD?  REMEMBER THAT LITTLE GEM?  HE WAS IN THE ARMY……YOU OF ALL PEOPLE SHOULD UNDERSTAND BEING DEPLOYED…….

AND SO WHAT IF MY PARENTS NICE THINGS FOR ME…..WHAT’S THE MATTER?  JEALOUS? GOOD….I HOPE YOU ARE.

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Comments
  1. Mary says:

    Sorry that you got found out Kari, that’s always an awful feeling! I’d love to keep reading along you can leave me a note on my blog or email me at xavier2001 at yahoo dot com (please delete after you reply if you don’t mind, I’m a paranoid nut lol) if you want.

    Hang in there!!

  2. sherry says:

    Thanks Kari for the info. I found your Very personal blog by accident.. I was looking for your email address so I could tell you to stop writing about my daughter on a public web site and to stop texting her when the problem is between her and her father. I really don’t feel that you fully understand what the situation is between them, you being only 3 years older than her after all. Your a married woman with kids of your own, and yet, still rely so much on your own dad. How nice you got so many expensive gifts from mommy and daddy, only to turn around and complain about your husband helping out his own daughter? Baggage – I’m sorry you feel that I am interfearing after 20 years, but you invited me into your marriage when you sent email to tell me about your father in-law dying – like I cared. He was a drunk, deadbeat dad, and a wife beater. As far as being concerned about you and your boring life – hardly. Justified and entertained is more like it.
    Is that what your husband told you – that I cheated on him and left him? What me and my three kids all under the age of 5? hahahaha!!!! Too funny!!!!! Ask him about Karen H, or the next store neighbor’s wife who would run in my back door as I was leaving out the front, who had several affairs on her own husband? Dean – awe.. a victum once again.. lol!!! Oh well, once a liar always a liar! Judging from what I’ve read about your life together, I would have to say that you are definently the one who’s in denial, you’ve heard it from me about my life with him, seen how he treats his first set of kids, his lack of friends, old friends that don’t buy his bullshit, your living it with him.. yet you still refuse to see what’s going on right in front of you.. Oh well, like you said, none of my business. I can’t help but smile whenever I think about all the problems Dean is having with his jealousy issues, insecurities, boredom with the marriage, to old and tired to spend time with his 2 year olds, only being happy when he’s out at the bar having a beer.. Oh how the tables have turned, he got old and bald then married a young girl gullible enought to believe his crap.. now your bored with the routine of having to take care of 2 year olds and having no life.. and after all the trouble of trying to have them.. it must be hard to have to do for someone else when your whole life up untill recently has been totally all about you. Too bad the kids are only 2 years old. You have a loooong way to go. KARMA I guess. I can’t help but feel a little smug that I got to see it.. Shame, we could of been friends. Good luck Kari.

  3. sherry says:

    No Kari, once again your wrong. I know your 35, sorry my mistake, that makes you all of 5 years older than his daughter instead of 3. Second, I told Dean that he was dead as far as Mandy was concerned – just a few weeks ago, not over 25 years ago when he deserted his kids without a trace, Army or not, I was in the Army, that’s how I knew how to go to my State rep and have him tracked down so he could buck up and pay his share of the child support, rather than just slitthering away and disapear in the army like he tried to do for months befor his Comanding Officer made him do Direct Deduction and sent to me for his kids.. I didn’t have them by myself after all now did I, but yet I raised them by myself. Neither one of you has anything to complain about..fathering 3 kids from a prior marriage, and all he ever had to do was write a check. No wonder he’s having such a hard time now that he actually has to do somthing with his twins other then write a check. No wonder Mandy identifies that with love, affection, or attention from him – that’s all she ever knew or got from him. Big hair? Why thank you for noticing, I always had a thick full head of it. Mental issues? Let’s not go there, I’m not the one on anti depressents because it’s not all about me anymore and my life is so boring and routine. How many marriages have I had since Dean..ummm 1. Just like your husband has had since me, except he’s also had about 6 live in’s along the way that also didn’t work out for him like your marriage isn’t either. So do you really want to go on keeping score? I choose to stay single because I don’t want to live a life like yours, I like being able to live the way I want without having to answer anyone, after all I’m not a mother to young children anymore, so I don’t need a man around to take care of me. Judging by your blog it sounds like you miss that life too. I moved on years ago, I happen to have 3 kids by your husband, which I have managed to raise on my own without anything from you or Dean other than a check each month. I haven’t had anything to do with you or Dean for years. Now Mandy is in need of a father and your having a problem with me being in your life all of a sudden? Well that’s what happens when you marry someone who was married before and has kids that are still living. I have no problem with your parents buying you expensive presents and treating you like their little girl. I do have a problem with you when you have something to say when Dean tries to do the same for his own daughters. Looks like I’m not the one who’s jealous here. Mandy called you and apoligized for me saying that I’m jealous? That’s good. What I really said is that “I feel sorry for you, and that it’s Dean making you lash out at us the way you are because your so unhappy with him and your marriage” feeling trapped and all, knowing that if you leave him you’ll have to raise the kids alone, because you and I both know he’s not ever going to leave the bar stool again once he get’s back on it. But if you want to continue this very public blog with me, go on, keep talking, it sounds to me like you know what I’m talking about and your having a hard time facing the fact that your husband is a dead beat father, and a pathalogical liar. I hate to break this to you, but I’m not the one with mental issues or a need for attention and sympathy..oh and by the way, keep an eye on the twins, it’s hereditary.

  4. pillarr1 says:

    Are you kidding me!! How rude to post such stuff on someone else’s blog!! Let me know if you move your blog, just email me. If I were you, I would try to stay out of this woman’s way – sounds like way too much trouble and drama.

  5. sherry says:

    pillarr1, please don’t talk to me about being rude. If Kari hadn’t posted anything about my daughter, that was private medical information – on a very public website – that she has since conviently deleted, I wouldn’t of said a word.
    Some people just live for drama, sympathy & attention.
    I suggest you get the facts straight before you judge anyone.

  6. sherry says:

    Before I sign off for the night let me just say that I originally sent Kari a private – personal – email expressing myself. This is Kari’s way of responding to it. A very public web site found very easily by google.
    If you can’t take it – don’t dish it out.
    Good night, and remember – we are all protective of our children, even ex-wives who’ve been there, done that years ago.

  7. soralis says:

    Wow… sorry to hear what you are going through…

    Let me know too if you move (I think it may be a good idea)

    Hugs

  8. Sherry says:

    ” 1986 CALLED AND WANTS THEIR BIG HAIR BACK! ”

    ” The ex wife is off her rocker…. ”

    ” am laughing my butt off at someof her (the psycho ex-wife) comments on my blog. She is a a sad little troll.ok.not little..but troll…yes ”
    —————————————————–
    Yes we are now on day 2 and childish name calling and insults about my hair and body is what you’ve been reduced to. I’m done with this – if you feel the need to exploit yourself, your marriage and your children – for attention, go right ahead. As long as I never see or hear one word about myself or my daughters for anyones entertainment again I will not say another word on here, or anywhere else. Take that as you will, but I would take it as a warning if I were you. Take care Kari, gook luck with your children.

  9. Ann says:

    Goodness… it’s not like you aren’t dealing with enough right now.

    Take care, please let me know if you move. I enjoy seeing the pics of your twins.

  10. Caba says:

    Wow. Can you say PSYCHO! Sorry you have to deal with such an obvious pain in the ass. You don’t deserve it ..

    Honestly, it sounds like she has a SLEW of issues … and none of them are yours. I’m sorry you are being stalked … because for someone to leave so many comments in comment section, well, that is just kinda crazy. Hang in there girl! Go private if you need to … so not worth the drama!

  11. Kari says:

    Ann, Caba, Soralis, and Pillar……thank you…..
    really, from the bottom of my heart.

    And IF I go somewhere….I will let you know…..don’t worry….

  12. Faith says:

    OMG! I had to re-read all this twice. I’m so sorry Kari. Big ((HUGS)) to you. We all love and support you. I say go private asap. Life is way to short for this kind of thing. Don’t waste any of your precious time on this nonsense. E-mail any changes so I don’t lose track of you.

    Love Faith

  13. Oh gosh girl, I am so sorry for you. If she had something ot say to you, why not rather do it in person. If you move, please take me along.

  14. Sheri says:

    Oh my…

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